January 10, 2007

Today is our last day in Guangzhou and since I got a request from some family members to please buy some more pearls, I decided to head over to the Pearl and Jade Market. I previously bought 5 strands in just a regular street market with our guide when I was here over a week ago, but didn't know how to go back to that market, and wanted a much larger selection to choose from. We only had two hours to get to the market and back before we needed to check out of our hotel and leave for our swearing in ceremony at the U.S.... more

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Wendy's boys were getting hungry and even though Jeff and I had recently returned from McDonald's with our children for lunch, I offered to go there with her since she wasn't quite sure how to get there. It's not a long walk, but you do have to cross over the bridge into Guangzhou, and walk through a few busy intersections.

On our first trip to this McDonald's when we were here over a week ago, we were with a different friend who was adopting an older deaf boy. We got quite the second looks with our Caucasian faces, a Haitian daughter, 2 Chinese sons, and sign... more

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While I was trying to cash traveler's checks at the Bank of China, we ran into Wendy, another adoptive Mom with a large family like ours. She is here adopting her 8th child and we had previously run into her 9 days ago when we had both arrived at the Victory Hotel but didn't yet have our newest children. She has her six year old bio son with her and is adopting a five year old boy. Her new son is from the Guangdong Province so she has spent her entire time here in Guangzhou. I thought we had "Little Emperor" syndrome with Caleb until I met her son. He is a doll, but a handful!... more

January 9, 2007

While Jeff stayed at the hotel waiting for the "all clear" from Raymond that our paperwork at the consulate was OK, I went over to the Bank of China to cash some traveler's checks. Well, I thought I was going to. After standing in a long line, I was informed that the earthquake over 10 days ago in Taiwan had affected the phone lines for approving anything like traveler's checks and that they would not accept them.

We brought a large amount of money in traveler's checks hoping that... more

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Our guide in Caleb's province shared with me that she was adopted herself when she was abandoned 21 years ago in the rural countryside of the Hubei Province. The woman who found her kept her for a few months but she became pregnant with her own biological child at the same time that the grandmother in the home became ill.

It was too much of a burden for their family, so they ended up giving her... more

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This trip, however, one of our guides who was an older woman shared that she now lives in Guangzhou because she was displaced during the Cultural Revolution. She was living in Shanghai, but because she was a university student-- and considered a threat because she was educated-- she was sent out to the rural countryside to work with farmers. She ended up later being sent to Guangzhou and was told she could not return to Shanghai even though her family was there.

She ended up marrying here, a man who also was originally from Shanghai and displaced during the Cultural Revolution.... more

As I sit in my hotel room in Guangzhou, I am amazed at the changes I have seen in China since we were here 6 years ago. Economic reform is everywhere, and just effective January 1st, motorcycles are no longer allowed in Guangzhou. Our guide said that it is due to safety issues since you might often see entire families of Mom, Dad and child all on one motorcycle weaving in and out of traffic.

When we were here in 2000, bicycles were everywhere in Bejing,... more

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I was happy to see the nurses at the medical appointment test Caleb for colorblindness...he doesn't seem to care what color his shirt and pants are when getting dressed in the morning, but I'm happy to know that he just doesn't have a taste for fashion rather than being truly colorblind!

After the medical exam, we headed back to the hotel and the other children were just rousing from their beds for the day. I was glad to see that they could sleep in because Alyssa has been quite sick the past few days. She hasn't wanted to eat much other than fried rice... more

January 9, 2007

Before any internationally adopted child can obtain a United States visa, they must go to an approved doctor who will fill out a medical exam form on the child. Thankfully in China, everyone who is adopting goes to one location here on Shamian Island. In Haiti for Micheline's adoption you had to hunt down the office of one of 3 or 4 approved doctors. Our hotel here is literally not more than one city block away, so it was very convenient.

Jeff, Caleb and I all got up very early to be... more

This is a continuation of our travel to Caleb. We are back in the States, but I will post the remainder of our trip on this blog.

January 8, 2007

We are back at the Victory Hotel which feels like home, having been here just a week ago. Before I retire to bed, I need to say that my heart is full....filled with love for the sweet little 11 year old boy who is quietly snoring in the next room. Ben sleeps silently, I so can tell just by sound when Caleb has finally dropped off to sleep.

He... more